GOAL SETTING
What are your goals? Really, what
are your goals? Do you want to lose 10 pounds, have shinier
hair, land that cute guy in your Algebra class, or get an “A”
in basket weaving? Goals are important for everyone and
identifying them up front helps you keep your eye on the
prize.
Why set goals? Life is
tremendously varied. At any given moment, there are thousands
of things you could do. When you're driving, you could turn
left, turn right, speed up, slam on the brakes, stop for lunch,
stop for gas, decide to drive to Alaska to see what Kodiak
bears look like, and on and on. But what is it that keeps you
from ending up in Alaska every time you get into your car? Why
don't you end up at random locations all the time? The answer
is that you got into your car with a clear idea of where you
wanted to go. You knew at the beginning.
Life is the same way. If you
know at the beginning where you want to go, you'll probably get
there. Even if detours and delays arise, eventually you'll get
there. But if you don't know where you're going, you probably
won't get there.
It might help to divide your
goals into time frames (immediate goals, short-mid-term goals,
and long-range goals). You don't have to have firm
answers to those gripping questions about what you want to be
or do when you're done at college to make this work; your goals
are likely to shift and change over time anyway. All you need
to do right now is think of a handful of goals to get started.
Write down a list of goals now before reading
further.
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